May 2009
We All Have Gifts…
I have seen a major pattern developing in my life this year as I have served as president of CAC IAAP. In particular,
whenever anyone talks to me about finding “myself”, “my hidden potential”, “my life’s
masterpiece”, “my yellow brick road”, or “my brilliance”, I get excited at the prospect and
start looking for “it”.
Do you question if you're fulfilling your life's purpose? Is this all there is? Does God have a special purpose
for your life? Many sources offer a blueprint for discovering your unique gift(s) so you can realize your full potential.
For me, my year started in July in New Orleans.
Simon T. Bailey was our keynote speaker at the IAAP international convention last summer. He was more fun than
you would ever expect to find at a conference and interesting, as well. He talked in depth about finding your “diamond
in the rough”. He explained that our bodies contain carbon, and if we take that carbon and work/harden it to its fullest
potential, it can become a brilliant diamond. No, it’s not that easy to produce diamonds, but Release Your Brilliance
by Simon Bailey will explain the process of finding your inner diamond. A diamond is valued for its clarity, color,
cut, and carat; and it takes many steps to enhance these values.
Simon had already gotten me excited, motivated, curious, etc., then, in February, I met Mark “Gunny”
Thomas. Mark spoke to our group about money and credit (dirty word), but he also challenged us to “find our yellow brick
road”. In Finding Your Yellow Brick Road by Mark Thomas and K.J. Cash, we
are reminded that God gave each of us gifts at birth. He placed us in families that would put us in circumstances to use and
hone our gifts. Often our childhood longings and dreams can serve as clues to our purpose and calling. What gifts were you
given, most importantly, what gifts will you give Him? We don't have to be perfect to be appreciated by God.
As Michelangelo proved to us, to find your life's masterpiece, you must look inside. You'll have to clear away
all the outer stones and things others have imposed on you, such as negativism, to find the beauty within! A gift isn't just
found in people who are exceptionally talented, successful, or blessed.
Simon says, “It takes a diamond to cut another diamond”. An uncut diamond might appear to be a useless
piece of stone on the surface. However, with the proper cut, its beauty can be released. You might be the "diamond" that another
admin or peer needs to find their hidden potential and they might have the same effect on you. You might "release your brilliance"
on someone else by helping someone with a work/personal situation or it could be as simple as inviting them to a CAC function
so they can become involved and network with other diamonds. If you want your diamond to be cut and shaped and have it shine
brilliantly, then surround yourself with diamonds. As Simon would have us say as we rubbed shoulders with others in the
conference center, "O Brilliant One, release your brilliance on me!"
In writing this message, I consider my own gifts. I believe my gifts have come in a shrink-wrapped basket. I have
caught a glimpse of things within, but they must be removed and handled to truly be appreciated. There are items in my basket
which are gazed at adoringly, but have never been touched; some items are merely filler; there are others that have been handled,
sniffed, and replaced for later consumption; some will expire, if not used immediately; yet there are others, which have been
cherished and enjoyed to the fullest!
Your gift lies in the place where your values, passions, and strengths rest. To unwrap it, you must discover your
values and strengths.
…some of us just take longer to open them!
Teresa Tidwell CAP
2008-09 CAC IAAP President
March 2009
This month I’ll play teacher and we’ll learn a new alphabet. This one contains characteristics, skills,
and words that describe an ADMINISTRATIVE PROFESSIONAL.
Please note –
PERFECT has not made the list!
A – Assertiveness
B – Behavior
C – Courtesy
D – Dependable
E – E-mail
F – Flexible
G – Grammar
H – Honesty
I – Initiative
J – Joy In the Job
K – Knowledge
L – Listening
M – Mentor
N – Networking
O – Opportunities
P – Proofreading
Q – Quality
R – Reliable
S – Spelling
T – Teamwork
U – Understanding
V – Volunteer
W – Writing
X – Xcellence (misspelled, but do you blame me?)
Y – Yourself
Z – Zealous
Now you’ve read my ABC’s, next time won’t you team with me…
Teresa Tidwell CAP
2008/2009 CAC IAAP President
January 2009
HAPPY NEW YEAR
Let’s talk “happy” again. Previously I
expressed unhappiness about gas prices and now they have fallen like crazy. When I posted in October, prices had already dropped
to $2.72 (compared to $4.15 on July 15) and by the time the year ended, I purchased gas for $1.25.
Right now “happy” also brings to my mind the
excitement we had at our house for Christmas with a toddler experiencing her first real taste of Christmas! She helped us
all remember to “see things through the eyes of a child.” Toys, Christmas lights, battery-operated toys, candy,
baby Jesus, shiny & beautiful things, stuff, chaos, trees, more toys, Santa Claus, sneaking candy out of hiding places
(yes, she’s already started that), dolls that talk endlessly, etc. It was pure joy!
Have any of you seen the movie from 2000 entitled “Pay
It Forward”? I got a copy of it for Christmas and it is a great reminder of how one person (or in our case, one group)
can make a difference in the lives of multiple people. A pre-teen boy is challenged in a class assignment to do something
that will make a difference in the world. His plan is to do something “very special” for someone else and have
them do something in return for three other people, and the cycle continues. Imagine, good deeds multiplying like rabbits!
How about this advertising slogan, also from 2000, “Have
a good day today and pass it on!” Am I living in the past, or what?
Let’s consider something we can do for others—singly
or corporately. Come to our January 21 meeting and we can broach the subjects of “Releasing Your Brilliance” and “CPS/CAP Certification”.
HAPPY 2009!
Teresa Tidwell CAP
2008/2009 CAC IAAP President
SUDOKU puzzle site - http://www.pdfpad.com/sudoku/
October 2008
HAPPY FALL Y’ALL
If you live in the United States, own a television, read
the newspaper, have been to the gas station, or have money in the stock market, you may think “happy” is no longer
in your vocabulary. Let’s find ways to incorporate happy in our lives and at least “get a handle” on negative
thinking. To suit my purposes, I will also associate happy with relaxation and positive thinking. The good news is that happiness
or positive thinking can rub off on others, just like the negative stuff does.
Technically, I approached that paragraph in a negative manner.
As with many negative thoughts, I wasn’t aware of the negativism until I looked back. But, I’m going to leave
it for that very reason…sometimes it takes looking back at our actions or words to realize how we’re coming across.
Think about it for a minute and you can find something that
makes you happy. Spending time with your family; watching your favorite old movies; taking a long walk to enjoy nature or
stretch your tired limbs; eating out with friends; sleeping late; soaking in a bubble bath; shopping; reading; crafting, etc.
I’ve always enjoyed working puzzles (along with the above activities), but I didn’t realize they relax me until
recently. I was at the doctor’s office, armed with a puzzle book for a long wait. People around me were griping. I was
perfectly content, surrounded by good lighting and a comfortable chair; I worked a Sudoku and a Cryptoquiz. After about 30
minutes when the nurse took my blood pressure, I was surprised because it was lower than it has been in several years. I’ve
always known I enjoy puzzles, but I never knew they could be good for my health. Here’s a link to some simple Sudoku
puzzles. Don’t let them drive you crazy, if you don’t like them – quit!
SUDOKU puzzle site - http://www.pdfpad.com/sudoku/
One suggestion for helping you look at a troubling situation
more positively is to talk through it with a friend. Sometimes, saying something out loud can give you a whole new perspective.
If that trusted friend isn’t available, maybe you can role-play as if you were giving advice to someone else in the
same situation you are in. Clear as mud? I found some interesting material on this subject at http://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTCS_06.htm.
You realize we can affect everyone around us with our attitude,
so try to make yours a good one. I love the cool, crisp weather in the fall—it makes me happy! I saw gas for $2.72 this
weekend, that made me happy, too!
Teresa Tidwell CAP
2009 CAC IAAP President
July 2008
Our former CAC IAAP President, Wanda Perry CPS/CAP, is one
hard act to follow! At the end of the month, I will be privileged to watch her cross the stage to accept her Distinguished
Chapter President’s Watch at the 2008 International Convention and Educational Forum in New Orleans.
This year, you have taken the first steps to continue to
be a Distinguished Chapter, by electing a strong board. If you look closely at the CAC logo above, you will see that Carolyn
Rufus CPS, our President-Elect, shared a vision with us in 2005 when she submitted her winning Road to Excellence design in our logo contest. Vice President, Anita
Rowe, checks in with a year of experience as CAC’s Treasurer. Anita brings administrative experience and the desire
to excel. Theresa Sontag, Secretary, joined IAAP in April of 2007 and has already been instrumental in chapter growth over
the past year as Membership Chair. The rest of the leadership team is still developing. It is very exciting to me when I contact
someone for assistance and they willingly agree—I’m seeing a lot of that and loving it!
I will now accept the challenge of “following Wanda”
which will require passion, professionalism, and commitment. CAC IAAP has been traveling the Road to Excellence from the beginning, but this year we are encouraged
through our international affiliation to follow the Pathways to Excellence. We will discuss the steps as the year progresses. For now, let’s pay attention
and see if there is an occasional path we should explore on our journey to Excellence.
Teresa Tidwell CAP
2008/09 CAC IAAP President
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